Comments on: Steven Bereznai http://blogs.heretv.com/joshandsara/2008/07/08/steven-bereznai/ A here! Networks Blog Fri, 21 Nov 2008 21:58:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=wordpress-mu-1.2.4 By: Clifford http://blogs.heretv.com/joshandsara/2008/07/08/steven-bereznai/#comment-572 Clifford Wed, 30 Jul 2008 10:43:30 +0000 http://blogs.heretv.com/joshandsara/2008/07/08/steven-bereznai/#comment-572 I don't agree with the notion that the single gay man is a social pariah. A gay man who is single -voluntary or involuntary- is still single, and all this talk about why it's okay to be single is glossing over the depressing fact that alienation and loneliness suck. I do agree that relationships aren't for everybody, and sometimes being single is necessary for healing. I used to think that being single was important and necessary, because of the pressures and BS associated with coupling. However, I also believe that people tend to be selfish and cold-hearted...and that isn't good either. Indeed, intimacy can be found in all sorts of relationships. But isn't love still important? Doesn't sex become purely a physical and emotionless act if we just focus on just f*cking? I don’t agree with the notion that the single gay man is a social pariah. A gay man who is single -voluntary or involuntary- is still single, and all this talk about why it’s okay to be single is glossing over the depressing fact that alienation and loneliness suck. I do agree that relationships aren’t for everybody, and sometimes being single is necessary for healing.

I used to think that being single was important and necessary, because of the pressures and BS associated with coupling. However, I also believe that people tend to be selfish and cold-hearted…and that isn’t good either. Indeed, intimacy can be found in all sorts of relationships. But isn’t love still important? Doesn’t sex become purely a physical and emotionless act if we just focus on just f*cking?

]]> By: Robb Later http://blogs.heretv.com/joshandsara/2008/07/08/steven-bereznai/#comment-531 Robb Later Tue, 15 Jul 2008 16:20:33 +0000 http://blogs.heretv.com/joshandsara/2008/07/08/steven-bereznai/#comment-531 So I just listened to The Gay Blades interview - very disappointing. Why would you have this group on? They are making a mockery of gay people - they aren't gay! Duh... So I just listened to The Gay Blades interview - very disappointing. Why would you have this group on? They are making a mockery of gay people - they aren’t gay! Duh…

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